I justgot a really rude message from someone. I thought this website was somewhere you could go for help or have someone to talk to. This person told me how can I be in need I'm married ??? Said it was a shame for me to even ask. Give me a break. None of you know what my life is like. No clue. You don't want to help me fine done read my posts. I may be married but being married and having a partner does not pay you. It does not put cloehes on my kids or food on the table. My husband works very hard every day.what the shame is . Is that my kids never see there dad and they still can't have there new toys or new clothes or anything new at all because we r about to lose our house and I have to sell my car so I can have the money to find something else when we do get kicked out. So how is that compared to being a single parent. Who cares single or not we still go through the same things.